This is Grandpa Oliver's granddaughter-n-law and I just want to add a little bit of our stories together. He was such an easy going kind-hearted man. As far as my husband and I go back, I just remember that it was a must to give Grandpa Ollie a hug. If not he would seek me out and ask for one. "Where's my hug," he'd say as if I had just given everyone but him one, but this wasn't in a mean way... More of a, you missed me, here I am..
I know he enjoyed fishing so much and to eat fish too. He once came over with a brown bag and asked if I would like some fish. I assumed the fish had already been skinned and filleted. NOPE! That suckers silver scales were just shinning and it was solid as a rock from being in the freezer. I had no clue what to do with that fish or where to begin. Robert and I both looked at each other. I am sure we were on the same page. It looked like a giant frozen sardine. Haha. I politely turned it down and he said, "Are you sure?" "Yea Grandpa, It'll just go to waste around here." Wishing now I had made that fish for him.
Another time that I don't want to slip my memory is when I had gotten to the end of my 1st semester in nursing school. As I am sure you know Grandpa was a diabetic. He was on a sliding scale and would give himself insulin shots as needed. He asked me how school was going and as excited as I was, I told him about how I was just checked off on giving shots. I had totally forgotten that he took insulin and he said, "well that reminds me I need to check my blood sugar." So we went into the kitchen at Patty's house. (This is exactly what I was studying to do so he knew I was happy to do all of this.) He and I sat at the table and proceeded to check his blood sugar. I pricked his finger and sure enough he said, "Well, you want to give me a shot of my insulin?" Yikes, now I was nervous. I said, "No Grandpa you better do it. I was just checked off and I don't want to hurt you." He said, "Oh no, you won't hurt me. Here adjust this up..." We clicked that sucker up and I stuck him right in his belly. My very first genie pig! He had all the confidence I needed. After that I was sure of myself.
There was never a time that I would see him that he wouldn't ask about my family. How's your mom, your aunt, your grandpa, your grandma, my other side of n-laws.. There is just not enough time in a life-time, but in my years with Oliver, I gained another Grandpa. We all love you Grandpa Oliver. Rest easy now Grandpa Ollie!!